Got it working
images in posts fixed like u said by disabling lazy load.
adsense was fixed by ticking the js in the head section and enabling only look in head. Those 2 options are the only way it works with js optimization on. (this lowers my score on pingdom a bit but it works)
for reference the website is http://www.overlordgaming.us/
main issue pingdom shows now is "Parallelize downloads across hostnames"